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Archive for November, 2007

Week 9:Thinking about Childhood, By Tim Creber

Yesterday afternoon I was listening to radio 5 in my car. There was a guy exploring how we could help children rediscover childhood in such a risk averse society. He was saying most of us adults have forgotten what it was like to be a child. He asked, ‘where was your favourite place to play as a child?’ That got me thinking. My answer is Sutton Park, in the West Midlands. Every Sunday afternoon we’d go on the post-roast walk and it would be such a huge advenutre. I was free to roam, pretending I was some army commando tracking my parents and periodically ambushing them out of nowhere. What glorious times, my childhood. The man’s question had helped me connect with a part of my life I had become so disconnected from.

Last week, Debs’ post about local poverty was so inspiring. What I liked about it was that Debs wasn’t talking about ‘the poor’ as some ‘issue’ we should deal with. Debs’ story was about friendship, learning and sharing life together with those at the bottom of the pile in the UK. When it comes to thinking about those on the bottom of the global pile, it feels much harder to find that connection. There is so much distance, such a lack of apparent commonality.

One point of connection is childhood. There’s something about being a child that, if we can remember it, we can find a point of connection with those apparently so different from us. Where was your favourity place to play growing up? Remember your childhood. Pause and remember.

Now, I want you to connect with Rachel. She is 13 and lives in Uganda. She is a child. At her age, I was at my peak of serious Sutton Park trekking, just before teenage apathy set in. The first time I watched a short film about Rachel it kind of washed over me. However, having remembered my own childhood, watching the film again last night I was close to tears because I found a point of connection with Rachel. Suddenly she had become a real child. Take a couple of minutes to watch this short film about her life and see if you can connect with her.

The Link is -

http://www.tearfund.org/Churches/HIV+Bring+childhood+back+to+life/3+minute+film.htm

If we are to connect with those on the bottom of the world’s pile, discovering Rachel as a real person is essential. Relegating Rachel to ‘the poor,’ one of the millions of children orphaned by aidsRachel’s, makes it easy for her story to wash over us. Global poverty is about people. In Rachel’s case, children robbed of their childhood. And it’s not right.  

‘Whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me’… ‘Let the little children come to me, for the Kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.’ Jesus

Most of the time I don’t feel guilty that I am on the top of the world’s pile. Neither should you. But connecting with Rachel’s story can and should help shape my perspective on life. Whilst I endeavour to intentionally connect with the poor locally, how can I live life in such a way as to be a blessing to children such as Rachel?

ACTION POINTS

1. If you haven’t already, watch the video of Rachel by following the link. 2. Look at some old photo albums of your childhood.

3. Do something to bless someone like Rachel.4. If you haven’t already, book a ticket to watch ‘Yesterday.’ This film is being screened by Tearfund at Prince Charles Cinema, by Leicester Square, from 6.30-8.30pm. To book a ticket call the box office on 08708112559 or check out http://www.princecharlescinema.com/?display=382

Week 8: ‘Am I distracted from my distractions, by distractions.’ (TS Elliot) By Debs Hunt

Connecting with the poor locally? Two things that I find most difficult about this are being overwhelmed and too busy.Where should I begin when we are surrounded by so much need and deprivation? Stepping out of my comfort zone to people who I don’t know, when I don’t have enough time for my friends as it is, is not high on my priority list. And yet, as someone who is attempting to be a disciple of Jesus, I know that connecting with the poor has to be central to my faith.

‘What you did for the least of these you did for me?’

Jesus

Four years ago, in an attempt to break out of my middle-class cosy bubble, I moved on to the ninth floor of a council estate in Battersea. I had been asking God where he wanted me to live. I felt him say, ‘I want you to move on to a council estate and love people back to life.’ God didn’t tell me to go and begin projects, although projects can be good, or begin a charity, though charities can be good. He told me to go and just love people. I naively thought that in no time at all many people’s lives would change, maybe even revival would come! I was sorely mistaken. I have instead learned that reaching out to those who are materially poor begins with befriending and loving one person.

 Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman (John 4) radically demonstrates His compassion for one person. Jesus is an outrageous example to us. He broke both cultural and gender barriers, speaking with a women who was stigmatised and marginalised in society. He sat down, engaged with, listened to, empowered, received from, and loved this one person. If Jesus’ example was to love one person in such a life-giving, barrier-breaking way, then maybe that helps those of us who feel overwhelmed when wondering where to begin with loving the poor.

Who is the Samaritan woman in your life? Just begin with one person - that is what Jesus did.

Karen has been the Samaritan women in my life. When I met her three years ago, she was severely depressed and suicidal. This was partly due to her dark, dingy, undecorated flat. Some friends and I offered to paint her kitchen and this is where out friendship began; over paint charts and endless cups of coffee. I have seen Karen change as prayers we have prayed have been answered and as our friendship has deepened. Her 15 year old daughter announced one day that she wanted to get baptisted, which we obligingly did in her bath. She has since returned to school, having previously dropped out. At the beginning of this year we were able to get Karen her first ever passport and to celebrate her 40th birthday by taking her aboard for the first time to Paris. Our background, education and life experience could not be more different, yet she is one of my greatest teachers and has become one of my greatest friends.

So the answer to feeling overwhelmed is to start with your Samaritan. But what about finding the time when my life is already jam packed? Talking with Jackie Pullinger I remember her saying that the most exciting, spirit-filled, miraculous event of her week was the weekly addicts meeting. However, she remarked, she never once felt like going. It was only as she went that the grace of God abounded and she was given strength and desire to go. I can relate to this.

A few years ago I felt challenged to take a day off work each week to spend time on the estate where I live to give people what they are most starved of - time. Most Friday’s I would prefer to do something else. Very little of me ever wants to go out. Yet, every Friday after I have walked, talked and spent time with those who live around me, I begin to see differently, to think differently, to hear differently - ever-so-slightly , but the process has began. The paradox is this; unless I set aside time to be spontaneous, it never happens!

To allow ourselves to be changed we have to learn to walk in other peoples shoes, to take off our prejudices and reluctance. It is only when we begin a rhythm of putting our faith into action and stepping out of our comfort zone that we live lives that invite God to move.

ACTION POINT

1. Go to a charity shop and buy a pair of someone else’s shoes, or borrow or swap shoes with a friend. Learn this week to walk in someone else’s shoes. Pray that God will open your eyes to see who the Samaritan women is in your life this week.

2. Get a group of friends together and spend a Saturday painting someone’s flat who would not be able to do it on their own. The easiest way is to call Besom (www.besom.com) who will link you up with someone in need in your area.

Week 7: Relating to the poor. By Tim Creber

‘If we really care about the poor we can name them’

Shane Claiborne

This quote from an interview with Shane Claiborne in the latest edition of Tearfund’s quarterly magazine, Teartimes, really made me think. I’ve just come out of a meeting with church leaders in West London, wrestling with what integral mission is. Part of the conclusion was that it is all about relationship. If I am really concerned about the poor, I’ll know them.

Next week, we’ll hear from Debs Hunt about connecting with the poor locally. Here, I want to focus on a different relationship we all have with the poor -  that in today’s world we are intrinsically connected through trade. What did you eat for breakfast? Where did it come from? What are you wearing? Who made it and where did it come from?

We are related to our global neighbours through these connections. Acknowledging that we are the privileged in the world, one thing we can do is to intentionally learn more about these relationships and how best to operate in them to bring life in all its fullness for those who make our breakfast and our clothes.

Today is day 4 of Tearfund’s Global Poverty Prayer Week and the focus is on Trade, hence the topic of this weeks thought. The world needs people who really care about the poor in such a way that as well as being friends with them, we can stand with those we don’t know by speaking out about trade injustice and changing our consumer habits accordingly.

How do you realte to the world’s poor? How can you live life in such a way as to stand with them to change the world for the better? If we really care, we’ll intentionally find out about these relationships and start to take action.

ACTION POINT

1. If you are a Facebook user, get the Super Badger application and campaign on Trade Injustice.

2. Pray with some friends today about issues relating to global trade. You can find a prayer sheet with more information and prayer points if you go to www.bepartofamiracle.org.uk